Here, I outline several
case histories of sufferers I have helped. Hopefully they will help
you see you are not weird or alone. Indeed there are many hundreds
of thousands, if not millions) of fellow silent sufferers out there
- and yes, you can be treated!
Whenever someone comes to see me for
emetophobia treatment, they say something like "I know where it
comes from, I was sick when I was ten years old and it scared me so
much that I have been terrified of throwing up since then". But
normally the root cause was much earlier in life and the conscious
mind has either forgotten it or at least the strong emotions
experienced at that time. It is rare for someone to fully remember
the initial incident. If they had, their conscious mind would have
worked it out years ago and would not have left them with the
traumatic subconscious feelings now experienced.
In all the case histories below, the client did not have vivid
conscious
memories of the incidents. The following information was revealed
under hypnosis:
Case History 1:
A.M. was afraid of flying, travelling on public transport and eating
in public. Whilst in hypnosis, the following was revealed: She was around 6 years
old on a day
trip with her primary school. They were visiting a funfair and decided
to go on a
fast and twisty ride. The motion of the ride made her feel dizzy and
she was violently sick in front of everybody. Her
emotions at that time were not only of discomfort but very strong
feelings of acute embarrassment. Her subconscious revealed her
deepest fear was to put herself in any situation in the future where
she may be sick.
Case History 2:
C.S. had a lifetime dream of being a bridesmaid. Eventually the
chance came at the age of 27 when her best friend announced she was
getting married and she wanted her as a bridesmaid. Was she pleased?
No - absolutely terrified - "what if I am at the front of the church
and I feel sick and I have to run past all those people, be sick on
the floor and ruin the day for everybody!".
In hypnosis, the following information was revealed: She was around
3 years old lying on the settee. She didn't feel too well but her
parents were going out to dinner and her grandmother was there to
look after her. Her mother picked her up to give her a goodnight
cuddle and she was sick down her dress. Her mother was fine about it
and said she would go and change, but her father got very angry and
started shouting at her mother that they would be late and that the
evening would be ruined. Even as a very young child she felt the
tension within this scene - her father was angry, the evening was
ruined and she felt incredibly guilty about being the cause of this
hostility. In adulthood, as well as suffering from emetophobia
(people get really mad at you if you throw up), she became a 'people
pleaser' avoiding conflict situations wherever possible. She was a
perfectionist and did whatever she could for those around her to
ensure they never got cross with her.
Case History 3:
T.A. was terrified with the thought of being sick. She had gone
to the most extreme lengths for as long as she could remember to
avoid being sick. She would never eat out, even at a friend's house.
She didn't drink, eat chicken, 'foreign' food and would clean her
house obsessively.
Whilst in hypnosis, the following came up: She was sitting on the
floor in her bedroom at the age of two years old. She had drunk a
bottle of Ribena juice drink rather quickly followed by some
biscuits. She threw up violently, producing red coloured vomit and
shouted for her mother. Upon entering the room, her mother screamed
in shock thinking that the child was coughing up blood. The panic
that followed traumatised the young child so much that even as an
adult, the thought of being sick fills her with terror.
Case History 4:
G.V. had a general fear of illness. She showed hypochondriac
tendencies and was restricting her life with rituals to avoid
getting ill. She travelled on trains with difficulty having to look
at each and every passenger in turn to see if she thought they were
ill and if there was a chance she could catch whatever they had.
Hypnosis revealed the
following: She was 3 years old on a boat trip with her family. The
sea was rough and she felt queasy. Her uncle, a large, gentle and
calm gentleman picked her up and held her over the side. She was
sick and felt OK about it until the uncle started shouting the
mother's name in a loud panicky voice and also turning her
away from himself. "There must be
something wrong with me. My uncle never raises his voice, he has
turned me away from him...I must be
really ill - am I going to die?" The uncle was in fact worried about
his suit getting splashed but this point was completely missed by
the scared three year old.
Case History 5:
S.B. was a 'people pleaser'. She boasted the fact that she
hadn't been sick since the age of eight. Hypnosis revealed her in a
scene at the age of two years old and sitting
up at the kitchen table. She was sick down her clothes and her
mother shouted at her "haven't I got enough to do washing and
cleaning without you making more washing for me - you bad girl!"
Hypnosis revealed the
above situations but how does Regression Hypnotherapy then go on to
successfully treat emetophobia